Can Everyone Trying to Conceive Get Pregnant?
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From birth we have a natural, instinctual drive or urge to procreate. That is part of being human, I believe. It's in our DNA. Choice is also our DNA. There seem to be two grooves of energy for just about everything. First, there is instinct derived from our basic nature as a human being inhabiting a body on planet earth. Then there is this other groove which always includes instinct but also goes beyond it; a broader version of instinct that has been expanded by our heart and soul, or Spirit. This version allows for choice.
So the difference between the two is something like this: "raw drive or instinct" and "conscious choice". What if each of us has in our DNA our own Divine Design as well? What if the activation of our unique Divine Design can only be done in that place beyond instinct , through choice? Our conscious choice.
What if having a child is always a raw drive or instinct? What if we went beyond that and said that whether we actually have a child or not comes from conscious choice? How might that change your relationship with fertility?
In generations, decades and centuries past, this was not an option. It was a given that a woman would bear children and if she were barren, oh dear, in some cultures that was almost a fate worse than death itself. The same held true for a man and his ability to "produce" a healthy child.
Consider that we grow up with lots of cultural "shoulds" that are often not at the conscious level. We are raised with particular gender norms like dolls for girls and trucks for boys. A lot of us grow up with an unconscious assumption that we will go to college, get a job, get married, and have children (sometimes not exactly in that order). A lot of us never stop to consider that even while we may be unconsciously following this outline, this may not actually be our divine design.
What if your dance with infertility is asking you to become really clear about what you are really meant to procreate? Must your true purpose be to birth a child? Or is it perhaps to birth something else? What is your true purpose? Maybe you've never asked yourself that question. Or, maybe you have asked, but you have had difficulty discovering your true answer.
Consider the Word, "Procreate:"
Let's look at the word "procreate". The definition is to engender or beget (offspring). The word "create" means to cause to come into existence; originate; to be the cause of. And "pro" means to be "for."
You might discover that you are 100% clear in making a conscious
choice to cause a child (or children) to come into existence. This is a profound and perfect
choice. Or, you might discover deep down inside a different authenticy:
to create or cause or birth something else. You have your life to do that
with. This, too, is a profound and perfect choice.
If we take the instinctual drive to procreate a child a step further, we
might see other options. We might reach beyond instinct and notice other possibilities. When
we reach beyond instinct, Spirit is present. When Spirit is present, our
possibilities expand. When our possibilities expand, we have choice. When
we have choice, we are conscious and empowered. Confusion, sadness,
and depression, which often accompany infertility, aren't part of expanding
into that broader space of Spirit-present possibility.
The Infertility Epidemic
Why are so many women/couples facing fertility problems? Why do some
end up having a child and others not? I would like to see these men
and women get really clear about this choice. If they choose to have
a child, their attitudes, life energy and actions will need to line up with
that. They will need to set their priorities accordingly and commit to being
the best parent they can be. If they discover that they, in fact, are
being called to create in a different way to offer their love and energy
out of the box of the cultural norm, then it is equally crucial that they
be supported in being clear, coming to terms, making peace and then moving
forward consciously.
As a Fertility
Expert, part of my job is
to help you discover, move into alignment with, and manifest whatever your
personal truth turns out to be.
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